Aug 27, 2012 – Are others’ successes getting to you? Do you find yourself wishing you were experiencing some of what someone else is enjoying or receiving? Being too focused on what others are experiencing and you are not, is going about it in the wrong way. Instead of wishing for what they have, appreciate their good fortune with the understanding that because you bear witness to it, you could have the same. Instead of envy, be energized by the possibilities that exist within you and around you to bring this kind of desired end result to you.
Take an MM&I Moment to list what you are wishing you could experience based on another’s good fortune. Then add to the list the smallest things you could do. Could you actually reach out to this person and learn more about their approach to things? Do you have shared connections that could be equally resourced? Do you need to learn or gain more experience in a particular area that will help you achieve the outcome? By taking steps every day towards your own dreams, others’ realities won’t be your focus any longer as your reality becomes your dream come true.
Synergized Quote of the Week
“The grass ain’t greener on the other side; it’s greener where you water it.” – Justin Bieber and Big Sean
Yours in synergistic thinking,